Showing posts with label road trip. Show all posts
Showing posts with label road trip. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

The Long Way Home...

I am going to first introduce you to the newest member of the Eddins family...


Now that you have met our new dog, Tag, I am going to back up and tell you the story of how he came to be a part of our family! 

As you know, we lost our beloved Baxter in April.  Losing him was one of the hardest things in our lives thus far.  Both Mike and I still shed tears over the loss and we all, including Lila, often talk about how much we miss Baxter.  The one family member that isn't able to verbalize how much she is missing her brother is Luca.  I must say, she has really done a remarkable job adjusting, but we could tell that things just weren't the same.  You could especially notice that she missed her brother when we would return from being gone.  She would meet you at the door in an almost panicked manner, greeting you as if she thought you might never return home for her.  It flat out makes you feel terrible every time you walk out the door knowing that she is anxious until you return home.

We talked very little about another dog right after we lost Baxter.  What we did say was, if Luca seemed to act like she wasn't handling the absence well, we would consider it, but we weren't interested in running out and getting another dog immediately, it felt as if it was too soon.  Those that know us well know that our dogs aren't just "pets," they are truly family members, so with that being said, we wanted to be very careful that we also didn't get another dog to replace Baxter.  There isn't a way to replace him, he was a one of a kind dog, one that we will always talk about, always remember. 

As the days turned into weeks and we observed Luca and her behavior the discussions about another dog started to happen more often.  We loosely started looking at adopting and stumbled across a handful of dogs that we were interested in.  After a few adoption applications submitted and for one reason or another, no dog, we decided to just chill out and take it as a sign that we weren't ready for another dog just yet.  It wasn't until I got a text message from my dear friend Racquel about her Dad's dog in Texas, did we start talking seriously about another dog.

Racquel sent a text message with a few pictures attached encouraging us to look into this breed of dog as she was absolutely smitten with how good he was, both with the family, but with her little girl, too.  I asked her what type of dog he was and she responded, "a Black Mouth Cur," to which I quickly thought her autocorrect on her phone must have messed up whatever it was that she was trying to type!  But, nope, she was right, I Googled it, and this dog was indeed a Black Mouth Cur.


Racquel & Tag - our first introduction to Tag
 
Sloan & Tag

Racquel told us all about how sweet her Dad's dog was, so immediately, I was intrigued.  We went straight to the internet and searched and searched.  We wanted to learn as much as we could about the breed, trying to understand if this is what the breed is really about or if Quel's Dad just has the exception to the rule?!  We loosely joked about Quel bringing the dog home to us, but it wasn't an option...so we did the next best thing, we found someone with puppies!  Within a week of learning about the breed, we placed a down payment for a puppy that was to be born in early June.  So, according to that we would have a puppy early-mid August!  We were pretty darn excited!  I would be lying if I didn't share that there was that nagging at my guts that a) I am a volunteer for a local humane society, how would it look if we didn't adopt a dog and b) do I really, really, really want to do potty training again and potential chewing on furniture, etc?!  However, all the other indicators said that this is what we should do, so I was willing to go with it!

We quickly started making plans with the breeder to pick up the puppy.  It was going to work out rather nicely, Mike has a break in late August between summer classes and the fall semester, so he would fly to Mississippi, one-way, pick up the dog, and rent a car to drive back to Cedar Rapids.  Did I just say Mississippi?!  Yes, I did.  As ridiculous as it may seem, the breed is only found in the south, I am not really all that sure why, but it is the case, so we were going to have to travel to Mississippi to pick the puppy up.  Which again, I shared with you that our animals aren't just our pet, so it didn't seem like that big of a deal to travel to get the animal that we really wanted.  Now it was just sit and wait!  The puppies were to be born in early June, predicted sometime around the 3rd, but no guarantees on the exact date. 

On the 7th, I get a call from my girlfriend Racquel and she opens up the conversation like this, "I have something to tell you, but I am rather sure you will be frustrated," (or something like that).  She preceded to tell me that her Dad is looking to prepare for retirement which ultimately meant that they needed to sell their acreage in Texas.  They were fortunate enough to sell their property quickly and found a home that they really like and as they started to think about preparations for their move, they quickly realized that it wasn't best if they took both of their dogs.  So...she was calling to ask if we would be interested in taking Tag.  As I was sitting on the phone with her all of that apprehension I had about getting a puppy melted away.  I didn't want to speak for Mike and I, but I was rather convinced that the minute I called him and shared the news with him, we would be making plans to bring Tag home.  I was right, that is exactly what happened, we began making plans to bring Tag from Texas to Iowa.

It just so happened to work out that Mike could leave the following Thursday after class and be to Russ & Cathy's by mid-day on Friday.  So, we booked him a hotel in Joplin, MO and off he went to retrieve our new family member!  It was a long drive back and forth, but Mike got to Whitesboro, picked Tag up and then traveled to Oklahoma to stay with my Mom and Terry to help break up the trip a little -- and have some human interaction, it can be a tad boring driving like that by yourself!  While Mike was traveling, Lila and I were busy at home preparing for their arrival! 

Snuggling in his bed at Grammy & Terry's

Testing out the dog beds @ PetSmart

Mike & Tag pulled into town at about 5:00 on Saturday evening.  We were very sensitive to the fact that this is Luca's home and we wanted to be sure she didn't feel threatened in anyway, so we had Tag meet Luca in the backyard to start.  They did the traditional sniff down and the rest is really history!  They got along famously and have done a wonderful job of adjusting to each other, we couldn't be happier with the way the two are getting along.

"Why, hello there!"

Hi, I'm Tag!

Curious little girl!


Hanging out together!

Tuckered out meeting my his family -- it was a big day!

And then there is that darling little girl of ours, who loved her Baxter so dearly, well, it is safe to say that Tag has wiggled his way right into her little heart, too! 


Lila & Tag

We are beyond grateful to Russ & Cathy for asking us if we would be willing to adopt Tag.  The way he has slid right into our family is almost uncanny.  He is a perfect fit!

While we are still mourning the loss of Baxter, we have opened our hearts wide open for another sweet soul to climb right in and stay forever!  Welcome home, Tag!

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

A Twist of Fate!

Do you believe in fate, the way the universe puts you in just the right place at the right time?!  I do.  Five years ago on September 22, 2006 some of my closest friends and family headed down to Nashville, TN to celebrate my upcoming nuptials!  I had been in Nashville the March before instantly falling in love with the place and a singer, Adam Wayde. I just knew this is where my bachelorette party had to be!



Little did any of us know, the night of September 22, 2006 would change our lives forever!  After spending some time at a few bars on Broadway we finally headed to Crossroads to hear Adam Wayde play!  I couldn't have been more excited to share this city and the live music with everyone who came to celebrate with me and this night, the band was exceptionally good!  There was a fiddle player that night who rocked, a true entertainer!  As fate would have it...it just happened that this fiddle players Dad was visiting from Oklahoma to see his son perform.  It also just happened that I introduced his newly single father to my newly single mother.  And the rest is history...


Mom & Terry

Fast forward five years later, to the date, and they marked this special anniversary by getting married!  Naturally, they wanted to get married in Nashville where they met, so we loaded up the family roadster on Tuesday (9/20) and pointed the car south to Tennessee! 

We decided to break the trip down to Nashville up by driving half way and stopping in St. Louis to explore and stay over.  Our first stop was Anheuser-Busch -- yes, we were those parents who took a 2 year old to a brewery...in fairness she was psyched to see the clydsdales! 




Mommy, Lila, and our new friend Dale!



The real Budweiser Clydsdales!

A neat stop on the tour was the stables that the Clydsdales called home!  Each of them had beautiful stalls and they had a whole room dedicated to their tack that was more organized than our closet!  All of the horses had their nameplate above their stall, even the dalmations had a spot to call their own!


Note in the picture above: they have a stall for "Mike!"

The next stop was a freezing cold room with huge containers that held beer as it was one of the many stages of fermentation.  They said that there is enough beer in one of these giant containers that an average human being would have to drink 24 beers a day for 136 years straight in order to consume all that is in the barrel!  I like beer, but I am gagging as I write that!





An interesting fact...as we all know, prohibition eliminated alcohol sales, so Budweiser came up with a soda that they manufactured for several years.  Prohibition was officially over on April 7, 1933 -- Mike's birthday is April 7th...does anyone see a coincidence (thank god, not 1933)!!!!

All the bottled beer on the assembly line


We finished up our tour at Anheuser-Busch, checked in to the hotel to freshen up and then walked to Laclede's Landing on the Mississippi riverfront.  It was an absolutely beautiful night, so we took advantage of one of the many restaurants to choose from and enjoyed our dinner under the stars!

Enjoying the view!

Wednesday morning it was up and at 'em!  We were all rested up and ready to finish up our drive .  We pulled into Nashville a little before 2:00 and stopped to get tuxes and other miscellaneous things before heading to the house we rented for the weekend.  We pulled up to a very nice neighborhood nestled right between Nashville and Brentwood.  We were very happy to see that our house was as nice as we expected and was going to be perfect for us.



Wednesday evening Mom and Terry requested that all out-of-towners come to La Hacienda (Taqueria) to get a bite to eat.  This place has history too, it is where Mom and Terry went on their official first date, the night after my bachelorette party and it has become a favorite place of theirs!


Favorite Place - Translation: HUGE MARGARITAS!

Let the festivities begin!


The party was even equipped with a conga line!

We were sure to make Wednesday an early night as we all had to be at Mom's on Thursday morning for hair, make-up and some much needed girl time before heading out to Cedarwood for the rehearsal at 2:00 and the wedding at 5:30. 




Hair?!  Check!  Make-up?!  Check!  Blushing Bride?!  Check!

A little after 1:00 we loaded everyone up and made our way towards Cedarwood.  Cedarwood is an AMAZING spot!  It is a picturesque 1830's antebellum farm estate with historic home, vintage barn, rolling meadows, flower gardens and fresh natural spaces..it was a perfect place for Mom & Terry to get married, with the overall theme of "burlap & bling," both the location and the concept combined their individual tastes perfectly! 



After a quick rehearsal the girls snuck away to the bridal quarters to spend a bit of time together getting ready and recapping all of the events that had already taken place throughout the day!  A fair amount of giggling took place as well as a few premature tears being shed in anticipation for the big reveal of the bride to her groom!


Three sweet munchkins!

After Mom and Terry spent a few minutes together it was time for pre-wedding pictures.  The fabulous team from Kristyn Hogan photography was onsite all day with us capturing each precious moment as it unfolded. 

After pictures...it was time.
Time to cue the music...
Time to walk his mother down the aisle...
Time to give the bride away...
Time to join hands...
Time to let tears fall...
Time to say "I do"...
Time to come together...
As one...
As a family.
















The only fitting way to wrap up the evening would be to go to Crossroads, where Mom and Terry met that fateful night, five years ago - September 22nd.  We did just that, we recreated that night as best we could.  The difference was -- we didn't enter the bar strangers, we were amongst family and friends and once again, we had one heck of a good time!

The Nobles!
Adam Wayde


 Congratulations Mom & Terry ~ We wish you all the LOVE & HAPPINESS your hearts can hold!